g I’ve always been able to, I’ve always tried my GP first and have always been able to talk to her and get contraception or emergency contraception. But if I hadn’t been able to I would have gone to a family planning clinic.

So your GP’s a female?

g Yeah.

And you have a good relationship?

g Yeah.

Rapport with her?

g Yeah.

So do you think that is one of the reasons why you go there?

g Yeah. That’s one reason, but I have also when shes not been there, I have seen other doctors in the practice who are male and I don’t really have a problem talking to them about it either. I think I just phone my GP first because it’s seems the easiest thing for me to do, It’s quite near here.

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Have you ever experienced any difficulty using your GP or any of the other services for sexual health?

No, I haven’t you know. You know they usually ask you at the counter ‘what is it for?’ I just basically, I’m a very strong-minded person me yeah, I just tell ’em ‘mind your own business.

If I have some business to tell you, I’ll tell you. I don’t need to tell you I’m here to get a Depo injection done or I am here to get a pregnancy test done. If I am asking you that I wanna see a nurse its because theres an issue around it, like I need to see a nurse. Obviously I’m not gonna be stupid and go and see a nurse because I’ve got tonsillitis now am I?’, and they just try and ask you to find out, it’s always the Asian ones.

Its like ‘can I ask you why you wanna see the nurse?’ and I just think is it any of your business? I know my rights at the end of the day’

I know my rights because my GP explained the procedure to me. ‘You don’t have to tell anyone at the reception what you’re here to see a nurse for’ , so if I wanted to get a pregnancy test done ‘what are you here to see the nurse for?’ its my own business.

I don’t wanna discuss it over the counter where theres like ten other staff and God knows how many patients behind me. ‘I don’t need to tell you’, I know my rights. It doesn’t bother me. But now when I go to get my Depo done I just say ‘My Depo. I am gonna be 21.

So it was good of the doctor to explain it to you?

So I was like hey, great, and she said to me ‘No matter how close they are with your family, confidentiality is a big thing which we have to be discreet about at all times because if you’re not you can lose your job”.

Well, I feel very uncomfortable talking to my General Practitioner about this sort of thing, simply because my General Practitioner is a friend of my family and although hes sposed to be you know, hes sposed to be completely confidential etc. I’ve never felt particularly comfortable telling him. I mean I’ve, as I said before I’ve used the clinic, the STI clinic once when I felt specifically that I was might have been presenting myself at some risk.

I found it to be an unwelcoming experience and something that I definitely wouldn’t have gone through with on my own, had I not had an adult there with me, I think I would have found it very traumatic. I wouldn’t say I found the staff particularly helpful but there was a counsellor there who did discuss things with me and she was very friendly.

Why didn’t you find them particularly helpful?

Well I mean not helpful, but they were very matter of fact which is fine, but I can imagine some people finding that incredibly difficult to deal with. Because of embarrassing and things like that and they were asking all these detailed questions etc, and to be fair if you got, if you’ve come to that situation, if you turned up at the clinic they shouldn’t have to ask you all these questions. They should sort of, I think they should test you for everything and sort of give you advice, but not sort of…

They ask you detailed questions about your own sexual life?

Yes, which which for some people might put them off doing it again, you know. I think it’s a situation which is, I think the one thing that majorly put me off was the fact that you have to book in advance where I was before, you have to make an appointment and when you turn up your appointment is not kept to the time, its after the appointment time and therefore you sit around for 3,4,5 hours waiting for it, which is enough to put you off doing it, I found that to be pretty bad where I was.

I also found that I missed one of my appointments in fact and although I was told that my details would be kept on file only for records. When I started receiving cards through the post saying I’m incredibly concerned that you didn’t turn up for your appointment and things like that saying what my appointment was for, I felt that they crossed the line of patient confidentiality in the sense that someone else could have opened my mail.

I mean you can often have the situation when people have the same surname and the same first initial or something, and therefore someone else could have opened it and read the card or whatever.

I was fifteen when I started going there and I was like ‘oh what do I say, what do I ask for’, and I just went there and they were a really friendly service and they were really kind, confident, friendly and they help you whatever your problems.

Okay, so you had no…

They give you all the options, theres like the pill and condoms and they give you leaflets and they give you a big pack of condoms as well and say while you’re thinking about it, use these.

Did they explain things to you?

Yeah, they explain everything to you, they explain all these sort of ins and outs of the pill and the condom saying its not, sometimes it’s not 100% and they say all of that.

I went down the Family Planning Clinic and they told me like everything. They were like, well they drummed it into your head that you are supposed to take it for twenty eight days, seven day break, twenty eight days, seven day break, and they said you can’t miss a pill for more than three hours and if you do you can get emergency contraception. If you get diarrhoea or anything like that you are having side effects from the pill, if you get migraines you are having side effects from the pill. They told me everything.

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Well I really didn’t want to go and see my family doctor and I wanted to go somewhere that specialised in it and really knew what they were on about and I didn’t want to run the risk of meeting someone I knew.

OK it seems that sort of you don’t want your GP to be involved in sort of your decision regarding…

Well, not really, I mean I don’t really know my GP that well, I’ve moved around quite a lot, I just found it quicker and easier to get an appointment at the family planning clinic and keep it away from the family doctor, kind of thing.

Well I didn’t really mind as such, it’s just that it’s easier to get an appointment at the family planning clinic isn’t it, it’s quicker and easier.

Is your GP male or female?

I don’t know really, I think it’s female but I’ve moved around so much and had so many different GPs, I’m pretty sure shes a female yeah I mean I’d go and see a lady doctor about it.

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I think if I had any worries I’d probably go to my GP. For the simple fact that when you come here, theres a ridiculous wait to see the doctor. So, theres like a two-hour wait to see the doctor, so I think if I had concerns then I would rather go and see my GP, because then I know I’ve got an appointment, I won’t wait that long. In and out in maybe twenty minutes.

Okay, when you came here you said the waiting time is ridiculous. How do you think they could improve it?

I think they should run an appointment system to be honest. If you miss your appointment you just have to rebook, I think.

But in some cases may stop people that just walk in.

Fair enough if it’s an emergency, if you need emergency contraception, fair enough, that should be a walk-in one. But I think if you need to get more pills or condoms or you’ve got to have a smear or something, I think those should be appointments.

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Yeah, Family Planning Clinic, I mean your normal doctor’s will give it to you when you go and see your doctor, when your time comes, or they give you a date when you next need your pills or need your next Depo done.

But when I went to the same doctor but it’s across the hall and then I went to ask them if I could ‘I’m running late for my Depo so I need you to get it done so I don’t end up getting pregnant.

And then they asked me if I was registered. I went ‘Yeah, across there. They go ‘Have you got anything wrong with you?’ and I was like ‘No, I’ve just come from the doctor’s which is, you know you’re linked to it. ‘Have you been to the family clinics before?’ ‘No I haven’t because I didn’t need to use it before,’ you know.

They went in to check with the doctor’s to ask if I was who I was saying I was. You know ‘I’m just sitting there because I’m part of the doctors, I’m part of your doctors, I’ve just come to the Family Planning Clinic because the doctor’s was shut.

I think that was one of the reasons why it was off-putting for young people to go in to Family Planning Clinics, they ask too many things, they need to make the questionnaires not as long or personal.

What kind of things did they ask you?

A little bit of family history, your sexual history so I think that’s also kind of, to know what kind of things you describe your’ Well, sometimes I think they don’t need to know that, you know, they’ve come to you for a reason.

I think also ‘cos they’re over run and they’ve got so many people they don’t really have time to sit down and say ‘Oh you know you’ve got this;’ ‘weve got that, this will get you in. Sometimes when I first started going to use clinics I got the feeling they couldn’t be bothered with young people you know. Because either they don’t have the time or it’s the things like you know ‘look it’s another one who needs condoms.

Where did you learn about contraception?

It was really during school. Like when they had the sex education classes, where they show you like videos and stuff like that. And theres a Family Planning Clinic in [town] which… I was round about 16 when I first went down there and that and they give you like free condoms, contraception and things like that. So I mean they would give you leaflets to read about it like, illnesses and all stuff like that.

And how did you know about family planning?

I heard about it off one of my mates, he was a couple of years older than me, like he said ‘I’ve been going down here for a few years,’ he said, ‘they give you a few, like will last you a life time”, but he went like where it is, if you know, were worried about anything or wanted any advice they’re there to help you to get through it and stuff like that, ‘cos hes had a few…

He didn’t really go into detail but hes had a few experiences where he thought something was wrong, so that’s how they helped him out and that’s how he got me to go down there.

And when you went to the Family Planning Clinic, can you tell me, how was it?

It was very nervous first of all, ‘cos hes talking to a complete stranger about like your very private life. But no it was, it was OK, but like they made you feel very at ease and they have a laugh and joke with you and…

And you saw a female or male doctor?

It was female actually.

OK.

Yeah. That did make it a bit like, at the time, but the bloke who, the mate who showed me the place and that, he said ‘No shes a very lovely woman, any problems just speak to her about it and shell tell you the best way, go and see your GP, or anything like that.

What questions did you bring up in the interview?

It was just like when I walked in there like and I just waited for me appointment, and went in there and I said that ‘I’m thinking about going further with a few like, with me girlfriend and that,’ and they went ‘Is she on the pill?’ I said ‘Yeah, shes on the pill, but I also want to use contraception meself. So it went, it went on for nearly, it was just like a basic sort of things like what was it? It was a basic things like going in there like speaking to them and how like, they don’t ask, they don’t push you for the answer for questions and that, they like say ‘Well is it, if you want to use it, what is it for?’

And it’s like I said to them ‘It’s for me girlfriend it’s so I don’t have no mistakes or anything like that. And it was just basically I went a couple of times after but then I met, and all that sort of thing, met me other half and weve gone on from there sort of.

Well, I feel very uncomfortable talking to my General Practitioner about this sort of thing, simply because my General Practitioner is a friend of my family and although hes sposed to be you know, hes sposed to be completely confidential etc. I’ve never felt particularly comfortable telling him. I mean I’ve, as I said before I’ve used the clinic, the STI clinic once when I felt specifically that I was might have been presenting myself at some risk.

I found it to be an unwelcoming experience and something that I definitely wouldn’t have gone through with on my own, had I not had an adult there with me, I think I would have found it very traumatic. I wouldn’t say I found the staff particularly helpful but there was a counsellor there who did discuss things with me and she was very friendly.

Why didn’t you find them particularly helpful?

Well I mean not helpful, but they were very matter of fact which is fine, but I can imagine some people finding that incredibly difficult to deal with. Because of embarrassing and things like that and they were asking all these detailed questions etc, and to be fair if you got, if you’ve come to that situation, if you turned up at the clinic they shouldn’t have to ask you all these questions. They should sort of, I think they should test you for everything and sort of give you advice, but not sort of…

They ask you detailed questions about your own sexual life?

Yes, which which for some people might put them off doing it again, you know. I think it’s a situation which is, I think the one thing that majorly put me off was the fact that you have to book in advance where I was before, you have to make an appointment and when you turn up your appointment is not kept to the time, its after the appointment time and therefore you sit around for 3,4,5 hours waiting for it, which is enough to put you off doing it, I found that to be pretty bad where I was.

I also found that I missed one of my appointments in fact and although I was told that my details would be kept on file only for records. When I started receiving cards through the post saying I’m incredibly concerned that you didn’t turn up for your appointment and things like that saying what my appointment was for, I felt that they crossed the line of patient confidentiality in the sense that someone else could have opened my mail.

I mean you can often have the situation when people have the same surname and the same first initial or something, and therefore someone else could have opened it and read the card or whatever.

I’ve wanted to have a test for a while, but I’ve always been scared of going into hospitals and I don’t really like hospitals and the whole thought of going into a hospital scares me.

But theres an organisation in [city] that I went to that has a clinic on a Monday night, so I went there and it’s a nice environment, safe, colourful and it doesn’t feel, it’s not a hospital so, you know, they have a clinic downstairs and it felt comfortable there. So..

So it was sort of embarrassment or…?

I was embarrassed, very, yeah. I went there and they ask you awkward questions like about your sex life and you know, how many partners you’ve had and stuff like that and it was a bit embarrassing, so like you know, asking questions, especially when theres two people in the room with you. So I was a bit, a bit nervous and scared. But it was OK, they made me feel welcome and safe and I felt OK.

And how was the experience of having the tests done?

Scary. I’m still a bit nervous.

Can you describe to me sort of what it is like, for the website?

Yeah. What they did is they took me into the clinic area, asked me a few questions and personal details and partners I’ve had, if I’ve used protection, have I been tested before. And then they suggested what I’m, ‘cos I’m a gay man, young gay man, what I should be tested for HIV, syphilis, ‘cos theres an epidemic going around [city] at the moment of Syphilis and Hepatitis.

And they give you a blood test, HIV test and then they give you the vaccine, Hepatitis vaccine. And then in two weeks time I get my results and then I have another vaccine of Hepatitis, and then I have to go back in six months for my third one.

It’s just that I wanted to make sure that I was safe, I’ve never been before and I’ve been sexually active since like ’98 and it’s like five years now and I’ve not been tested at all, so I thought it was about time that I was tested. Just to be on the, to make sure for myself, ‘cos I’ve had a few partners, and casual partners.