Work and finances
Parents who often took annual leave to look after their children when they were ill had little paid leave left over to go on holiday. Taking unpaid leave from work had an impact on household finances, especially if their child had stayed in hospital that month. Some of the parents we spoke to said they took a combination of annual or unpaid leave and carer’s leave to cover days when a child was ill. Flexible and part-time working
Flexible working arrangements and supportive employers were vital in enabling parents to manage work commitments and to “take the pressure off” at times when their children were ill. Some parents said it helped being able to work from home, or be able to work their own hours. Parents (mainly women) who worked part-time, or were able to work flexible hours, found that this helped when their children were ill. Sharon works part time in administration. She is able to juggle her working hours or work from home when Henry is ill. Couples who both work have to make decisions about whose work to prioritise when the child is unwell. Sometimes this decision is made because of the nature of the work, current commitments and also how accommodating the workplace is. Ruth works in a University, which is a flexible employer, while her husband would need to take annual leave, so she usually takes the time off.
Nia and her husband are teachers. She felt annoyed sometimes that because she worked part time she was the one who took the time off to look after their son, rather than her husband who worked full time. People’s careers and future income and benefits are affected by such decisions.
A few people were able to consider becoming self-employed so that they could manage their work commitments around their children’s needs. When Kwame went to school Hyacinth started to work for herself, making things to sell. She says it gives her the flexibility look after Kwame when he is ill. Adam is a taxi driver and although his finances are affected when he is not working, it gives him the flexibility to look after his son when he needs to. Being a homemaker or taking a career break
Families are usually dependent on two incomes to manage but in some families, one parent had taken a career break or the family were able to manage with one parent not working. This had helped them to manage the care of their child during times of illness.
Sometimes one parent had stopped working when their child was diagnosed with a long term medical condition. Phil is now at home full time, which helps with looking after Liam when he is ill. Louise gave up a successful career in publishing when her son was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. Harriet gave up work when Alfie was diagnosed with leukaemia. Sarah says the benefit of not working is, “I haven't had to worry about the whole calling in to work side of things.” Lyndey doesn’t know how she would manage working at this stage in her children’s life when they are ill so often.