Health professionals
People’s relationships with health professionals can make a difference to how they cope with their condition on a day to day basis. Most people we talked to had encountered a wide range of health professionals during the course of diagnosis, treatment and management of their condition. They included hospital-based consultant specialists, nursing staff, general practitioners, counsellors and psychologists.
People’s relationships with health professionals ranged from positive and supportive encounters to extremely frustrating experiences in which people were very unhappy about the standard of card they have received. This summary aims to give a balanced account of people’s experiences but these are the stories of individuals and they are not necessarily representative.
Several people recalled specific encounters when a health professional had said something upsetting, without that professional necessarily being aware of the effect their words had had.
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- Age at interview:
- 34
- Sex:
- Female
- Age at diagnosis:
- 16
- Background:
- Riva is married with two children.
How does that feel if you are experiencing real pain, and you’re being told that it’s in your head?
It’s infuriating actually because I know it’s real, and I know that I’m not the only one who says it’s real. I mean doctors examined me and say it’s classic fibromyalgia and it does exist. It is painful. And I’ve met people with fibromyalgia and it’s, it’s very painful at times. And I know people that stayed in bed, you know, for months with fibromyalgia and just couldn’t move from the pain. So if somebody come and said to me and said, “Oh fibromyalgia doesn’t exist, it’s in your head.” And I’ll say, “You’re talking rubbish. You’re talking rubbish because the fact is it does, and there are a lot of people now, suffer from it.” And more and more doctors that say, “Yes, it does exist. It is a condition.” But there’s always, they’ll always be someone to tell you oh no, you’re talking rubbish and it’s only in your head. There’s always someone like that. Also I had with the Crohn’s, someone who once told me that it was, Crohn’s was in my head. And that’s now physically proven, you know, they took the bowels and like “Look it’s ill. It’s sick. It’s there.” But, there was a doctor that told that it was only in my head, and it’s actually not real.
Those who lived in areas of London or other larger cities with a defined Jewish community mostly had encountered health professionals that were respectful and supportive of their religious and cultural requirements. Health professionals who had worked with the Jewish community were also more likely to have come across some of the rarer genetic conditions. A couple of people who had accessed healthcare in Israel and the United States commented on the cultural differences in the doctor – patient relationship. One woman thought her UK doctor disliked the fact that she was assertive in her views and asked challenging questions.
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- Age at interview:
- 34
- Sex:
- Male
- Background:
- Aaron and Rebecca are married with one child aged 5. Ethnic background/nationality: Jewish.
Rebecca' But the [hospital name] team were brilliant, absolutely brilliant really, and really helpful and they gave us their phone numbers even before she was born.
We’ve also got a nurse, so that’s kind of part of it, is that we’ve got such good medical care, you know, kind of my niece was born a year after her, and the difference between the treatment that we had, and the treatment that she has is just ridiculous. I mean we’ve got a, a registrar we can call on 24 hours a day, 7 days a week if we’re worried which we’ve done on a couple of occasions and we’ve got a community nurse at [hospital name] and a community nurse at [hospital name] and a community physio, so any problems, I mean she’s barely seen the GP, because we’ve never needed to, you know, everything’s been kind of oh well she’s got a bit of a cold, we’ll phone the CF ward.
I mean even down to toilet training which we were struggling with, she’s got a psychologist who helped us out. Whereas you don’t get that with a normal, a normal baby and it’s, they make it as easy as they can make it, and in a lot of ways it was easier that she was well, because we had such a huge back up of support. But we knew she was getting better when the nurse from the [hospital] came when she was probably about three months old, having been very tiny and quite scarily thin, she came and said, “Oh she’s chunky,” [laughs].
Aaron' We do say with the care that we’ve had that we sort of fell on our feet in certain ways, the way that it happened that we ended up being seen at [hospital name] and we are one of very few families that get, that she actually get seen there, or has been admitted there, isn’t it, for the IV’s and things like that. Most of them would go to their local hospital, but we, we’ve sort of taken up the option of going straight there and we sort of feel it’s probably the best place to be. So we’re quite lucky with that.
Rebecca' Well it’s partly because, well partly because we live in London, and partly because are shared care is with [hospital name], and they are both very excellent hospitals so there’s no kind of choice really. I mean whoever’s got a bed. But yes, they don’t to take, they don’t tend to go to [hospital name] for their IV’s until they’re much older, they tend to go to their shared care hospitals.
So …. I think the nurses quite like her actually [laughs] because the CF kids are, especially her, they are actually quite well, you know, so it’s not like they’re lying in bed being quite ill. They’re often, I mean, yes, there are some who are obviously quite ill, but often they’re active and they’re out and about and they, you know, are running round the ward like a lunatic.
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- Age at interview:
- 55
- Sex:
- Female
- Age at diagnosis:
- 20
- Background:
- Harriet is a management consultant and is married. Ethnic background/nationality' Jewish/Russian/Polish
While I was under the care of the [hospital] I remember having some real issues with the difference between the way consultants and doctors treated patients in this country and the relationship that I had with them in the United States, which to me was much more human at the time. In the USA a patient was able to talk to her physician, ask questions, challenge and be part of the healing process, where in Britain, patients were expected to be good listeners and do what they were told. I found that very, very challenging.
I remember asking my first UK consultant why I should trust him with my life when I got to hospital, and [laughs] his reaction was anything but positive as far as I was concerned. He was trying to blind me with science, which he couldn’t because I understood all his big words, and I wondered why he felt I shouldn’t I be able to ask him what he knew. However, I got good medical care. I don’t want to fault the care, and after about fifteen years, they cut me loose. They said, “Well you’re done. You’ve survived fifteen years. It’s not going to come back. You’ll be fine.”
While most people were keen to be actively involved in their own or their child’s healthcare, some found it difficult to challenge what was considered ‘expert opinion’. A couple of people described how they had to be quietly ‘pushy’ to get the care and treatment they needed, or were encouraged by other health professionals to ‘make a fuss’ so their needs would be met. Those who considered themselves ‘outspoken’ in their interactions with health professionals were concerned that other, less vocal, patients might not get the same standard of care.
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Sara pushed her GP to refer her son to a different consultant because she felt the first consultant did not listen to her.
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Jill was encouraged by another doctor to 'make a fuss' to get the treatment she needed for her glaucoma.
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Sheila thinks she only got chemotherapy for her breast cancer because she pushed for it. She is lucky to be educated and have medical professionals in the family but worries about others who are less assertive.
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- Age at interview:
- 48
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Sara is married and has several children aged between 11-26 years. Ethnic background/nationality: Jewish White
I went back to the GP. We were backwards and forwards with that, but I didn’t get them to really listen. They said, “Oh he looks fine. He’s okay.” The blood tests were not as terrible as when we were diagnosed. They were sort of hovering. They weren’t good, but they were okay. They said they were okay.
So he was having tests every two to four weeks. Every time we did them, the inflammatory markers that they look at were going up a little bit, and a little bit, and a little bit. And I kept saying to them, “Look what stage are you going to tell me, there’s something wrong with my child, it’s not working.” No answer [laughs].
After the parenteral treatment I was struggling against the doctors and him because he wanted to have pasta and cheese and they were saying, you know, “We don’t think it’s a real problem.” And I was saying no it is. So that was difficult for me to argue. And I kept that up all the time [laughs] until he had surgery. But after the surgery, the doctors were saying, “Psychologically just leave him alone, let him eat what he wants.” I’m not confident that’s the right approach, but I can’t fight it.
Yes. And why do you think you weren’t listened to. You said that you felt you weren’t listened to at all?
That consultant, is a very eminent consultant and I’m sure he does wonderful research, but he just didn’t listen to me. I can’t really understand it. But I know that I was right because he was seriously ill. But he didn’t listen to me, and I just wonder, you know, what would have happened if they listened in the May, instead of in November. I don’t know, I don’t know what would have happened, whether he’d have had the surgery. I don’t know. I don’t know if it would help. It was very frustrating. Very...
Literally I’d go into the room and he’d look at my son and say, “How is he?” And I would say, “Actually I don’t think he’s feeling very well.” “He looks all right.” He never examined him. From the first time that he diagnosed it, he never actually felt him or touched him or anything. So it was really, sort of a bit strange.
I tried my best to provide him with information like the blood tests beforehand and I showed him, I said, “Last month this was this level. This month it’s this level.” He said, “It’s not significant.” But each time it was going up, you know [laughs]. I don’t know what to say. Even my GP, I phoned the GP and I said, “I don’t want to go back to him. There’s no point.” “Don’t you want to try once more?” And I said, “There’s no point. I’m telling you I go in and I sit there and I’m out within five minutes and he says he’s fine. And I know he’s not.” We had to push things. But not many parents would I think
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- Age at interview:
- 83
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Jill is married and has got four grown up children. Jill volunteers for local and national organisations. Ethnic background/nationality: White
So she did it. But by this time, it didn’t sort of worry me. You get used to it, you know, it’s not a pain, it’s a sensation - really it was nothing after that first time I had it done. She said, “And then I’ll see you in two weeks.” So we made the appointment. Of course they rang up and said, “You can’t have this, you know, the doctor’s not come or something. We’ll send you another appointment.” So they sent it for about six or seven weeks ahead. So I rang them again and said, “I’m supposed to see somebody within two weeks.” And the woman said, “Well that’s nothing to do with me.” Of course I should have said, “It bloody well is.” But any way she didn’t do anything about it, I thought well, I suppose they know what they’re doing.
So I went into a Specsavers from whom I had bought glasses, but not the same branch, because at that point I was away for a few days in Bristol. So I went and said, “I am a customer. But would you check my pressures?” And they did. I mean it’s good people did that without any, you know, worry at all. And it was fine. So I thought well pressures all right. So doesn’t matter that the appointment was put off for so long.
But this eye I still have to use the drops to keep the pressure down. In fact one doctor I saw, I’d never seen before or since, said, “You should have that redone. Re-trabeculectomy you see.” He told me to ask the consultant. I said, “Well I’m not very good at that.” “No, no, you must make a noise. Make a fuss.” I said, “It’s no good,” I said, “I’m not that sort of person.” And I mean, they’ll never get my sight back, so I don’t really think there’s a lot of point. But anyway the other doctors haven’t said that so …
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- Age at interview:
- 59
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Shelia is a teacher. Ethnic background/nationality: Jewish South African
She actually said what it would be and then afterwards radiotherapy. With it being Stage II and being, with the HERS oncogene gene strongly positive, that’s the one that they actually can use Herceptin for. At that stage Herceptin wasn’t available in UK, except as part of a trial. When I asked my oncologist if I could take part in a trial here, he just dismissed it.
Anyway and that’s, that’s what, you know, that would be the recommended treatment. So of course, I was a bit confused. So the way I, afterwards, I saw the oncologist I showed him everything that I’d got, and he said, “Oh.” He said, “They have a more aggressive approach in America.” So I said, “Well it’s not the United States, it’s Canada. And they might have a more aggressive approach.” I said, “But they have much better survival rates.” I said, “Britain is right near the bottom in Europe.” At that stage I think only Greece was worse then us. I mean in terms of survival rates for breast cancer.
So, he sort of rubbished me, and he said, “Oh you know, there’s risks.” He said, “If you have chemo, it can increase your risks of leukaemia.” And it could be this, and it could be that. Anyway, so basically what happened was that in the meantime, he said, “We’ll start with the radiotherapy.” And then my mum was also coming to be with me.
So in the meantime I had an email correspondence, and obviously, and I was speaking to my sister and brother-in-law, because they also said to me, “Don’t go on the web, because there’s just so much information, it can be totally confusing. We will find out for you because we know the right things to find out, the right people to ask and we’ll get back information.
Anyway, so, I would send them his replies, then they would send me further information, and then I’d speak to him, and this was going on. In the mean time I also contacted my one cousin in Israel, who, from my perspective, is the doctor that I would trust more than anyone else in the world. Absolutely amazing person. Older. He had been a GP and then he had become a neuroanaesthetist.
But he was up to date and he would find out things. And he found out. And he said, “In Israel, this is what would happen.” And I would be having chemo. A friend good friend is at [town name], also in the medical profession. Not an oncologist, but works at the hospital, so then you can be in touch and everything. Her actually speciality is infant baby breathing. And she found out that if I was in [town name], they would be recommending chemo. So it seemed to me, you know, that was definitely considered the best way forward.
In the mean time my mum arrived and when she came with me to radiotherapy and met my oncologist, that was the first time he actually said, you know, “Think about it, and you’ll speak to me at the end, and if you want chemo you will be able to have it.” Anyway, comes to the time, I have finished the radiotherapy and I have a little period of recuperation and I have to meet him and he’s going to see how I am. And it’s my decision.
And I said to him, you know, after everything I had done the research. I mean there was, there was a slight increase in terms of statistical stuff, in terms of the risk of leukaemia, but it was .014. So, so that’s like, you know, fourteen thousandths of an increase. And if the actual risk of leukaemia was only like about 2%, you know, it was a very, very small increase. I mean you sort of need to understand a bit of statistics, but you know, weighing up all the things up, I thought I wanted to give myse
People were aware of the benefits of building rapport with medical staff, as a good personal relationship might mean getting additional insights and treatment tips beyond what might be considered routine practice. However, several people said they had found it difficult to build rapport with one particular consultant, as hospital rotas meant they were likely to see different doctors at each occasion. There was also a fair degree of frustration about hospital appointments being changed at short notice. One patient wondered on what basis the people responsible for scheduling the appointments had made the decision that she could manage for another six weeks without seeing a consultant and thought the process should be made more transparent.
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Harriet discusses the use of cold caps and hair loss. 'If the nurses see you as a person rather than just a patient they might give you extra pieces of advice that can benefit you'.
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Cissie finds that consultants sometimes talk to her parents rather than to her.
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Seeing different consultants all the time makes it difficult to build rapport. Sylvia wrote to the Chief Executive about her appointment being put back by six weeks.
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- Age at interview:
- 55
- Sex:
- Female
- Age at diagnosis:
- 20
- Background:
- Harriet is a management consultant and is married. Ethnic background/nationality' Jewish/Russian/Polish
And the other nurses there said yes, use the blue. Sure enough a lot of the people that use the pink, get a strip of baldness and they have to do a comb over, because the caps don’t fit flat on your head. So you don’t get as good a freezing. Anyway these are just details. That was private information, nowhere does it say don’t use the pink, use the blue. Sometimes developing relationships with your nurses so that they’ll talk with you as a person, not just as a patient, is really important. I’m sure they would give the same advice across the board to people, but they might give it in a slightly different more friendly way to someone who builds a relationship with them.
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- Female
- Background:
- Cissie is a voluntary worker and lives with her parents. Ethnic background/nationality: Jewish
So how would you describe your experiences with health professionals?
Variable. Sometimes they talk to me, sometimes they don’t. But on the whole they do talk to me as a person. But the way they, I had my peg changed recently, and they didn’t give us, any information about it. Because they put in a temporary one, I’m waiting now for the permanent one. So there were real communication difficulties with that. But on the whole okay. You know, variable.
When you say sometimes they don’t talk to you, do you mean they talk to your parents?
Yes.
Why do you think that is?
Maybe they just don’t think I’m capable they don’t want to frighten me or there isn’t… they don’t think I understand… I don’t know. It depends on which train of thought they come from. The more mature doctors think more of themselves, and the younger ones, the not younger ones, the up and coming ones are more open and more understanding.
How does it make you feel if they don’t talk to you?
It used to upset me, but I’m used to that. It’s more… it’s okay. I listen. And if I understand, I understand. And if not I ask my parents when I come home to verify things.
Do you find that happens with other people or is it just doctors?
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- Age at interview:
- 74
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Sylvia is a retired social worker. She is a widow and has had two children. Ethnic background/nationality: White British
Do you think if you had been more questioning of the doctors at that point, there was something they could have done that early on that would have made your life easier in terms of the Crohn’s?
Yes, I do because it would have given me a greater understanding. And I mean, maybe a lot of it, is to do with the fact how doctors sort of dealt with their patients, you know, years and years ago, doctors were gosh, you just sort of listened to exactly everything that they told you. And, you know, probably I certainly didn’t challenge, whereas these days I do. Yes.
You’ve got support now with your gastroenterologist and the follow up appointments you’re having now. Have you found support anywhere else? Any other form of support?
No. I haven’t looked for it. I’m not a hundred per cent happy about the support from the gastroenterologists simply because I keep seeing different ones, and last week I wrote to the original consultant with a copy to the hospital Chief Executive, saying I wasn’t happy about this and could I go back onto the original consultant’s list. And also they kept on changing appointments and whatever, and I’m still waiting for response. I think okay I know doctors are busy, doctors move on, there’s sometimes shortages and everything’s written in your notes, but, you know, for me, you like to build up some sort of rapport with the doctor and feel that, you know, they don’t know you as such, but that, you know, they’re aware of you, and also, you know, doing that, you then have confidence in the doctor.
What I have found particularly annoying, they change the appointments, sometimes two three days before you’re due to go for an appointment, they then make you, offer you, make you another appointment for five six weeks later and the chances are, they could well change that. And it’s... and this is why I did a copy of the letter to the Chief Executive, because who decides, you know if you change the appointment, who decides which patient can wait for five or six weeks or whatever? So I’m waiting for a response from that because, you know, to me this really isn’t acceptable. And fine, I will challenge it, but there are lots of people who won’t.
Spending time in the hospital waiting room on the day of the appointment provided an opportunity to meet others with similar conditions. However, many people had to travel fairly long distances to access specialist treatments, so hospital appointments could easily turn into an all-day event. A couple of people were very positive about how the hospital had tried to accommodate their needs though, for example by arranging overnight accommodation for the parents of a girl with CF so that they would not need to travel on the Sabbath.
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- Age at interview:
- 53
- Sex:
- Male
- Age at diagnosis:
- 35
- Background:
- Gary is married with one daughter and is an entertainer. Ethnic background/nationality: White British
And they’re very good the hospital, because I’m sixty odd miles away they, when I go up there I go for a whole day and they, if I’ve got to have any tests or anything they arrange that for the morning and then if I’m seeing more than one doctor, then they arrange that for the same day. So I see, I usually see two doctors and I might have an MRI scan or something, all on the same day, so that I don’t have to keep coming backwards and forwards. So they’re very good. And sometimes if they have to make me a very early appointment they have a place up there where people can sleep over night and they let me stay. So, they are excellent. Very, very pleased to be a patient there.
A few people had received care from health professionals with specialist psychological training such as nurse counsellors or clinical psychologists. However, a couple of people who had been keen to get such support had been unable to access it. A couple of others were lucky to find such support outside the NHS from voluntary organisations and specialist charities for their condition (see Support and support groups).
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- Age at interview:
- 63
- Sex:
- Male
- Age at diagnosis:
- 56
- Background:
- Harvey is a retired primary school teacher (and continues to do some supply work). He is married and has had two children. Ethnic background/nationality: British Jewish
And do you feel that not being informed is a result of the doctors not really knowing or poor communication?
I’m sure it is, yes. Yes. I genuinely think that they are not quite sure what to do. It’s got to the point where anything they do is a big dodgy as far as my future health is concerned. So it’s like the status quo can be maintained.
Why do you think it took them so long to actually get to the point of acting then?
I don’t know. Because I’ve had this so long, over this period of time, I’ve been seeing a series of different doctors [laughs]. And with one doctor in particular, as long as I turned up, and appeared to be walking, talking, and breathing. That seemed to be okay. And he’d say, “Oh you’re looking well, jolly good. I’ll see you in three months time or whatever.” And you know, maybe I should have complained and nagged and gone on about it, but I was always glad of, and quite happy to be active, and walking around and teaching and doing what I was doing.
And maybe I never laboured the discomfort that I felt. But the fact that I was there, seemed to be okay. And, and, an excuse for them to do nothing [laughs]. You know, it was like “keep taking the tablets”.
And don’t drink too much.
Oh no one’s ever said that again. That happened until I was, as I say with this gentleman in Cornwall who funnily enough after this incident of having the nuclear stuff that I drank and breathing in and then seeing the junior doctor rather than the consultant as I should have done. And then seeing the consultant and him getting, arranging the colonoscopy and ringing me up and telling me to sit down after that, instead of keeping him I got another gastroentologist. It was almost as if, you know, I don’t know whether I’m putting two and two together and getting a four or five, but why did they change. Why? Was he feeling guilty? Did they think I’d kick up a fuss? It was strange.
Have you thought about taking that further and asking?
No, because they, they just stonewall you there. You know, it’s, it’s a bit like an old boys’ network isn’t it? You’re not going to speak up against another doctor. So …
Well they just, their answer is to give me tablets. In the first instance, they are okay, you know, Viagra. Okay. It seems to work, but not terribly well. So I went back and I said, “Who can I see?” And they sent me to the urology department . He gave me some different tablets. Well that wasn’t really dealing with the problem at all, because actually it was the same tablet, but a little bit stronger. It wasn’t addressing my needs at all. And then I went and saw the colorectal nurse and had a frank discussion with her, and she said, “Oh I’ll talk to a clinical psychologist.” And then she rang me and said, “Well he suggested, well rather than go to see a clinical psychologist we’d go to Relate.”
What you and your wife?
Yes. And I thought well that’s passing the buck a bit isn’t it. So I feel a bit disappointed with them, that kind of … you know, an operation like that it’s, it’s intensity, I would have thought requires some degree of counselling [laughs]. You know the stoma nurse comes and tells you this is going to happen, that’s going to happen. This is what you do. Blah blah blah. End of story. And that was it. That was all the counselling.
Does she goes through the practicalities?&nbs
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- Age at interview:
- 36
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Caroline is married and has 3 children. Ethnic background/nationality' White British (Jewish)
I didn’t have any genetic counselling as such which I know some people do get. I went to see a psychologist before my surgery which looking back on it I don’t think it was particularly useful at all, because for a start it was a man which I hadn’t really, it didn’t bother me, until I mentioned it to someone yesterday who said, that they thought that was quite weird that they sent me to see a man about breast surgery, because I don’t, I don’t think a man could relate to it in the same way as a woman. But it hadn’t really bothered me at the time.
But he just asked me questions that again now I think back at them, I think, what a silly question to ask me. He said to me, “When you’ve had your mastectomy and you get changed in the communal dressing room, how do you think you’re going to feel? Would it bother you?” I said, “Well I have absolutely no idea if it’s going to bother me, because I haven’t had it yet. And if it doesn’t bother me that’s very good, and if it does I’ll come back and see you.” But I just thought what totally useless questions. And I knew more than he did about what I was going through. And he just said, “Well it’s seems like you’ve done a lot of research, so I think you’re fine for surgery. I think he was just trying to see if I was some kind of nutcase that just liked surgery. Yes. So...
Many people found it very helpful to be able to contact a nurse or consultant by telephone in case of minor questions or concerns arising between check-ups. Even if they had not made use of such facilities, people found it reassuring to have the option.
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Simone decided to go privately for her cancer treatment. The care was excellent and 3 years later she still can phone if she has a question.
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NHS treatment might include waiting around for appointments and having to travel to get tests done but the care Hayley received was brilliant.
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- Age at interview:
- 44
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Simone is a statistician, married and has two children. Ethnic background/nationality: White
Did you think you were given enough information when you got the diagnosis?
Yes, I mean I think that was one of the benefits of going private. The breast cancer nurse there was absolutely fantastic and you know, she spent time with us after we had been told it might be cancer and explained the whole process to us, so any questions … And in fact we went back in the next day, so she could explain things in more detail, and we got used to the decision, but all the way through, her, and the other two chemotherapy nurses were fantastic. And having spoken to other people who’ve been treated on the NHS, I mean the treatment just doesn’t compare really, and I don’t think that’s any fault of the nurses in the NHS, there are just too many people to see, and not enough time, you know, these people have got the time to spend with you, and they’ve always been at the end of the phone. Even now, you know, nearly three years later, if I’m worried about anything, I know I can phone them up, and they will answer the question themselves if they can or they’ll speak to the oncologist and get back to me.
Can you give me an example of something that you would ring them up and ask them about?
Just, you know, as I say after the treatment your breast feels very different after the surgery. Things seem to be in a different place, and even with the radiotherapy, so I might feel something. Has that always been there? or is that something new? And I just go for reassurance. So that’s it. I pop in to see her. You know, you can just do that. Even after all the treatment, they’d say if you ever want to come in for a chat just give us a ring, and come on in.
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- Age at interview:
- 39
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Hayley a teacher, is married and has three children. Ethnic background/nationality: Jewish
And I was on the list, you know, it takes time, you are on that conveyor and then I was on a new conveyor belt, which was the ovary removal conveyor belt. So I am on that conveyor belt where once a year I have my counsellor. I am on the conveyor belt of once a year I have my mammogram and MRI. Then I am on the ovary conveyor belt. So I was on the ovary conveyor belt, because its blood and make sure you are healthy, and pre op and all that kind of stuff, and filling in forms and all that.
And, so I was on that and I was waiting. I was told don’t go to the [hospital] because their wait list is too long. And then when I was on the [hospital] ovarian removal department, who also had this genetic cancer department. And, you know, you can’t fault them. Whatever people say about the NHS, they are amazing. I mean absolutely supportive, and the nurses, everybody is just so caring. There is no one situation where I thought oh… they’ve been absolutely brilliant.
So you are saying the NHS was really good?
Yes.
Did they give you enough information do you think?
Absolutely. I don’t know if everyone did, but you have a counsellor who is at the end of a phone and you can phone them. The only time there was, not a blip, but an issue, was [hospital] run out of money to do the MRI. And, so it was a wait, it was a wait, it was a wait. And I said, “Well what can I do?” And she said, “Well go through your GP.” So, which was fine. So I went to my GP. She was amazing. And I got my MRI through, a local hospital, the [Hospital] and now to be honest with you, it saves me going up to London, now I have my mammogram and MRI through [hospital] and not the [hospital] which saves me a real trek to London, which is ideal.
Most people we talked to had received their medical care through the NHS. However, a couple of people also had experience of private healthcare for at least some of their treatment. People had positive and negative experiences in both systems. Private healthcare was described as a way of ‘jumping the queue’ while offering a less time-pressured environment and excellent aftercare.
Having treatment on the NHS could feel more like being processed by a large system; one woman with ovarian cancer talked about her ‘conveyor belt experience’. But despite longer waiting times and practical constraints, the NHS was praised for the level of expertise of its consultants and the dedication and caring attitude of its nursing staff.
Having treatment on the NHS could feel more like being processed by a large system; one woman with ovarian cancer talked about her ‘conveyor belt experience’. But despite longer waiting times and practical constraints, the NHS was praised for the level of expertise of its consultants and the dedication and caring attitude of its nursing staff.
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- Age at interview:
- 34
- Sex:
- Female
- Age at diagnosis:
- 16
- Background:
- Riva is married with two children.
The best thing so far was conventional medicine. My consultant at the hospital has been fantastic. He’s been so helpful, you know, and willing to try things, you know supportive, being there when I need, when I need him, when I need to talk to someone about what’s going on. And he never gives up, he says, “Oh well this can work. Let’s try this, let’s try anything.” He always has something new up his sleeve, you know, which is really lucky [laugh].
And I’m waiting for the day that, you know, that row of medicines will stop, because some work for a short while and then they stop working and, but, I have been very lucky I believe with him. I was very lucky because I know that a lot of people don’t really communicate like that with their consultant. You know, they barely see them. They go and they see a registrar, a different one every time, and they have to start the story all over again. I was very lucky being able to see the same person for years now. It helps.
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- Age at interview:
- 39
- Sex:
- Female
- Background:
- Karin works as a director/administrator. She is married and has one child. Ethnic background/nationality: Jewish
So do you feel you're being well looked after by the health professionals?
My big surgery, that was very, very, very traumatic because I like to have everything organised in my life. I like to know where everything is, and with [daughter’s name] I had everything scheduled, spread sheeted, everything, went into hospital, and literally I was just about to go down to theatre and everyone was in theatre, and my plastic surgeon came into me and he said, “I’ve got something to tell you.” And he wasn’t changed or anything. He said, “We have to change your surgery. I have to cancel your surgery.”
He had drawn... I mean I was covered in black marker. I’d psyched myself up. I was, at this point, a total wreck, because I’m going in for anything between 10 and 15 hours of surgery. And he says, “We’ll have to cancel,” which was devastating. But the reason I had, they had to cancel it, was because they had another patient who needed the intensive care bed. Which however devastating it was for me, someone else was in a more devastating position. So he said to me, “Is there anything he can do to make it better?” So I said, “Just let me walk out of here with another date,” which he did. And we had it then.
And anything else I’ve had since then has always been the second date. My surgery next week, should have been last June, but I opted to cancel last year because I had too much on. And it was, it’s purely cosmetic, it wasn’t medical. So I didn’t, I thought if I put it off it’s not the end of the world. So …
Yes.
So we’re now on part two [laughs] the nipples. But, as annoying as it is, it’s inconvenient. It’s not life threatening. It’s annoying. But because you’re in a cancer specialist hospital, you always run that risk. So …
Last reviewed May 2019.
Last updated June 2013.
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